eHarmony Cost of UK Membership 2018

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eHarmony is one of the biggest online dating sites in the UK, below I have outlined how much you can expect to pay and broken down the membership types to help you find out the full eHarmony cost.
Personally I liked the breadth of characters that were on the site, it helped me look past my usual ‘type’ and helped me experience some good (and bad) and unique dates.

The site was actually founded in USA in 2000, so its grown massively and is now a global dating platform  and has gone on to become a world leader in the dating space.
eHarmony has a reported database of over 2 million users in the UK which is a great advert for them, and like I said is great for meeting an array of people but access to the site is going to cost you as eHarmony is not a free dating site.
Before looking at the price, you can find my best eHarmony Discounts to help save you some cash money, when joining the site.

Below we have outlined the cost to join eHarmony, along with a short review (read more real eHarmony reviews here) and any available discount codes for joining eHarmony to help make your dating experience as affordable as possible! -> ppfftt who said ‘my love don’t cost a thing!’

How Much Does it Cost to Join eHarmony?

Here is a quick reference to the cost of eHarmony and the different membership packages they provide.

NOTE: eHarmony releases different pricing at different times of the year so you might find that the 3 month or 24 month packages aren’t available at certain points in the year – the costs change too, so they may vary between accounts.

eHarmony Basic Membership Costs

Price Per Month Duration Savings Total Cost
£13.95 24 months £744 £334.80
£21.95 12 months £276 £263.40
£32.95 6 months £72 £197.70
£40.95 3 months £12 £122.85
£44.95 1 month £0 £44.95

*saving are compared to £44.95 monthly payments

eHarmony Total Connect Membership Costs

Price Per Month Duration Savings Total Cost
£17.95 24 months £648 £430.80
£22.95 12 months £264 £275.4
£34.95 6 months £60 £209.70
£41.95 3 months £9 £125.85
£44.95 1 month £0 £44.95

*Note you can choose between paying in 1 or 3 payments split evenly across your membership for both the 12 month and the 24 months.
The 1 month, 3 month & 6 month eHarmony memberships must be paid in full as a one off payment.

Join eHarmony for £9.99

Once you have signed up to a membership package, eHarmony will ‘helpfully’ automatically renew your membership 24 hours before it is due to expire – for this reason, we recommend you deselect the auto renew option.
Note – by deselecting auto renew, you will be required to pay the normal rates which new members must pay, although every time we have checked this, the prices are the same anyway – clever marketing ploy!

Compare eHarmony Basic Vs Total Connect Membership Plans

Here is a quick breakdown comparing the benefits you will get, whether you opt to pay for eHarmony Basic or eHarmony Total Connect plans:

Membership Feature EHarmony Basic EHarmony Total Connect
Send/Receive Communication requests YES YES
See when your matches last logged in YES YES
See who has viewed your profile YES YES
Request photos from your matches YES YES
View matching profile photos YES YES
Get a deeper analysis of your personality with ‘premium personality profiles’ NO YES
Call your matches and keep your number secure with eHarmony ‘Secure Call’ NO YES Cost

6 month subscription = £77.94 (£12.99 a month) 6 months eHarmony subscription = £95.94 (£15.99 a month)

Elite Singles Cost

6 month Elite Singles subscription = £299.70 (£39.95.99 a month) 6 months eHarmony subscription = £95.94 (£15.99 a month)

Zoosk Cost

6 month Zoosk subscription = £71.94 (£11.99 a month) 6 months eHarmony subscription = £95.94 (£15.99 a month)

What Do You Get from eHarmony For Free?

By simply signing up to eHarmony, before even paying a penny you get the following benefits:

  • You get to answer their relationship questionnaire
  • You can see potential profile matches (minus the profile picture – booo!)
  • You can send ‘smiles’ and/or ‘icebreakers’ (predefined questions) to show your interest to your matches
  • You get a personality profile that analyses your questions to give you an insight into your dating personality

* free trial – eHarmony offer a 7 Day risk free trial. Claim your money back if you are not happy with your first 7 days of subscription

Is there an eHarmony Free Trial?

Update: The Free Trial mentioned below stopped working on the 30th March 2016 and will not work – please add your email address to my mailing list and hit the green button to be alerted when the code is live again, which we expect to be soon.
One of the most common questions I get asked is “can I get an eHarmony free trial?” I hated telling people No all the time, so I wanted to put some work in and see if I could provide something lovely for the folks who visit my humble little site.

I have recently been in talks with eHarmony and for a limited period I can offer my users an exclusive eHarmony free trial code for a 2 week period.

eHarmony Free Trial

Joining eHarmony & Using an eHarmony Promotional Code

So you have decided to take the plunge and join eHarmony – good for you, no one ever got anywhere in life by doing nothing. Like we always say here, you get out of Online Dating exactly what you put into it – its important to have the right frame of mind aswell.
So after clicking the ‘create an account’ button you will be taken through a host of questions, I timed myself and it took me 17 minutes and 32 seconds – precise huh!? The screen will look something like this…

eHarmony Cost - sign up

Followed by questions popping up on the same screen – they have obviously thought about the user interfaced as its quite beautiful and the questions are laid out in an uninstructive manner.
Once completed, you will hit the PAYMENT page – now if you don’t want to pay now, your only option is to go back to and login again, this will take you to your new personal profile page and you can always pay later!


If we have been kind enough to find you a promotional code, you will want to enter it at the payment page, as highlighted above.
If you fancy taking out a single month plan (although eHarmony do advise against it, as love takes at least 3 months) then you will need to click the ever visible ‘full priced option’ link, also highlighted above! Payment is fairly quick and easy, I used paypal and the wonder of the 21st century is that it took me 2 minutes and I didn’t need to fumble around trying to find my security code which had been rubbed off my 5 year old bank card!!

Live eHarmony Promo Codes 2017

See below for a great 12 month eHarmony  voucher code I have for you lovely folk and remember to sign up to my newsletter for exclusive eHarmony offers and discounts

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Please read the T&C's as you will need to email me once you have joined eHarmony through the link above.

View all of our live eHarmony Promotional Codes

Tips & Money Saving Tricks

  • Definitely follow eHarmony on Facebook and Twitter as they regularly launch competitions and incentives through their social channels.
  • As mentioned above, eHarmony change their membership offerings on a regular basis. You will find during more popular spells (ie New year, Valentines) that the 24 month plan wont be available but the 3 month plan will be and visa versa during slower months. If you want either the 3 or 24 month plan, but it isn’t being shown – drop me an email and I’ll try and get you access.

eHarmony Free communication Weekends

eHarmony are famous for their ‘Free Communication Weekends’ these are pretty much what they sound like. You use eHarmony’s Guided communication to speak to any of your matches for absolutely free, you don’t need to add card details, just sign up take the questionnaire and get communicating!  You wont be able to see any pictures of your matches, but once you have completed the guided communication you are free to email your matches.

The last eHarmony free communication weekend  was between 24th August 2017 – 29th August 2017.
We expect the next free communication weekend to be on the 28th October 2017

Visit our eHarmony free weekend page for more information.

eHarmony Reviews UK

As this page is meant to serve you some real eHarmony reviews, you probably want the nitty gritty. So below I have put together my honest review, broken down into sections and also included reviews from real users to help you decide on where to spend your dating ££.

eHarmony Advert 2016

eHarmony UK Facebook
eHarmony UK Twitter
eHarmony Youtube

How Many People are on eHarmony?

This is a pretty easy one to start with, eHarmony claim to have 4 million UK users with an estimated 1200 new members a day. We obviously cant prove this, but it is widely reported. The ratio of males to females is slightly skewed, with females a little more dominate in their database. Most users are in the age bracket of 25-45 but both the younger and older groups have seen a significant rise in recent years.
Verdict: One of the biggest pool of users, which is a good thing in my book. Variety is the spice of life and all that!

Quality of eHarmony Matches

Having been signed up to ‘nearly’ every dating site available in the UK, I’ve been there, done that and pretty much dated (or at least spoken to) every type of person you can imagine. One major gripe that I had with most dating sites was the amount of random messages I received (I’m no Beyonce, and it got boring pretty quick) a lot of them were spammy and some were…..damn right weird!
I guess as eHarmony is one of the more upscale dating sites (in that it actually costs something) the users feel less like time wasters. This can be a negative as I did go through dry spells where I thought I was going to die single, but the people I spoke to and the ones whom reached out to me seemed more legit and after receiving a cockload of penis pictures, I was more than happy to slim down my inbox.
I’ve seen and read a lot of gripes about matches being too far away, I never had this issue but it could be because I lived in London at the time and I’ve also travelled around a bit, so each place has offered something new. All I can say is, if you are prepared to pay for dating, I would broaden your horizons a bit and look outside your postcode.
Verdict: eHarmony send you your matches, this eliminates the need to trawl through profiles. They do a great job of only selecting the best matches for you!

Customer Service

I guess this might not be a game changer for most people but its always nice to have a friendly voice if you have any problems. I’ve only needed to talk to a member of staff there once (long story about reporting a user who thought I was someone else and wouldn’t leave me alone) but they were really helpful then. With all paid dating sites, there are a few details you need to know before signing up
E.g. no matter which paid dating site you use, you must un-check the ‘auto renew’ payment option, they all have this annoying habit!
eHarmony, like have a great help section on their site if you have any questions, plus we are also building our own eHarmony FAQ section from questions I’ve received from you lovely lot.In general if you need to speak to someone the best bet is to go to their contact page and talk to them via live chat or give them a call on 0800 028 0308. Cant get through? Email me and I’ll see if I can help.
Verdict: With my limited experience, eHarmony seem to have a great customer service team as well as a good online presence to help you in your hour of need.

eHarmony Mobile App

eHarmony have a great and easy to use mobile app. Available on android, iOs and windows – so anyone with a smartphone can check their matches whilst on the move – which I think is a big plus.

eHarmony mobile app


Overall I feel that eHarmony is definitely one of the best dating sites to use in the UK if you are looking for a real relationship. The amount of time they have spent working on a matching algorithm and the amount of time you invest in filling out your profile makes eHarmony a commitment which I guess reflects on the people that join and actively use the site and app.
It can be expensive, especially if you are joining for a short period. Our advice is to try a free communication weekend to see how you get on, you should get a feel for the site if you block out a day or a few evenings to really use the features during the free weekend. To me, the price really came second to finding someone, if you meet that someone special, its more than worth the cost and hopefully you wont have to kiss THAT many frogs! Good luck!

22 thoughts on “eHarmony Cost of UK Membership 2018”

  1. Hi,

    I joined eharmony but I only want to pay for one month but it would there is no option for only one month subcription . Is that correct? How can I pay for month to be able to enjoy communication and access to the other people?

    1. Hi Luu, thanks for the email.

      hhhhmmmm looks like the one month option has recently been removed, thanks for the heads up.
      Ill look into this and update you.
      I would wait it out for a couple of weeks if you are set on a one month sub and see when you options change, eharmony change their pricing quite alot!!

      Ill send an update soon

  2. just wanted to say— i appreciated the “Free trial code” for the 2 weeks free trial period. Thanks for the info and the quick reply to my message!:)

  3. Hi Shem 🙂

    Just wondering if the 2 week free trial for eHarmony is still available?
    I’ve signed up for it but haven’t received a code.



    1. Hey Jade,
      Apologies for the delay, the free trial at eharmony isn’t currently working, ill update the site once I get an update – sorry!!!
      In the meantime, we have a nice eharmony discount live 🙂

    1. Hey Theresa,

      Thanks for dropping by. Unfortunately that code isn’t available at the minute, but keep an eye on my site as I will update it when it does become live again. WORD OF WARNING, 3 month codes are rare, so you might be waiting a while.
      I have a great £9.95 code live at the minute for a 12 month membership, hopefully that is of help

      Thanks for dropping by

  4. Hi,

    Do you know when this year 2015 Eharmony, may bring out the 3 month subscription again? Or are you able to get a 3 month membership code?

    1. Hey Tess,
      First off, thanks for dropping by and leaving a comment.
      Unfortunately eHarmony manage their membership packages internally and price point switch from account to account.
      Eg a couple of my friends can see the 3 month plan now, but I cant!

      I’m working on a 3 month code, so the best I can offer at the minute is to sign up to my newsletter and once I get a new code, Ill email you straight away! 🙂

      Sorry I cant help more at the minute!

      Thanks again Tess

  5. Hi
    I am pretty much interested in joining. Would you be able to send me the 3 months membership code please? this is what my friend has got and i wouldn’t mind that either. Hope to hear from you soon.

    1. Hey Sam,
      Keep an eye on the site or sign up to the newsletter, any codes I get will be published here.
      TIP – keep an eye here next week, I should be getting an exclusive code 🙂

    1. Hey Laura,

      You can get a 1 month subscription. You will have to click the ‘full detail’ link on the payment page. Word of warning, the 1 month subscription isnt the best value – Id keep an eye out for a discount code before joining for 1 month.
      Hope that helps

    1. Hey Cartiere,

      Thanks a tonne for the comment!
      eHarmony like to test different memberships at different times of the year. Our code for 3 months at £5.95 should still work regardless of whether the 3 month package is showing up when subscribing or not – hope that helps!

    1. Hey Lara – very strange!

      Are you an existing member? I guess you have tried entering the code at the payment page??

      If you haven’t already, fill out your profile as much as you can and then try logging in / logging out and use the code UKMWX5X5 it should take you straight to the payment details page.

      If this still isn’t working, please leave another comment or email me admin @ and I will look into this more

      Thanks for visiting

      1. Hi There. Your 6 month code works – I would rather try the three month first – if you could help with that promo code pls – cheers, Jags

        1. Hey Jags,
          Thanks for dropping by.

          Bad news – looks like eHarmony ended the 3 month code, I’ve just taken it down.
          On the bright side, eHarmony do have the 6 month code you mentioned live OR I have just been told that eHarmony are just about to add a new code – for one week only – 6 months for the price of 5!

          Good luck Jags!

  6. So I decided to get back on eharmony! Come on 2014 lets do this! Although it’s kinda hard work online dating at times. Feels like I’m doing admin and constantly checking or updating. But I’m determined to stay focused and at least commit to one date!

    These offers seem quite good! I didn’t realise comparison sites for this kinda thing existed! I found you guys randomly on Google, but really glad I did! Do I get a free toy if I sign up through you guys?!! 😉 I find the freebie dating sites the worst so eharmony may charge that little bit extra, but worth it! Cheers for saving me a few quid all the same! 🙂

    1. ha – good to know Donna – keep at it!

      No free toy, but keep an eye here as we will be offering something special for folks joining through us soon!

      Happy Dating!

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