Online Dating Tips for Men

This weeks edition is brought to you by Gary Gunn who is the founder of the Social Attraction Academy and author of “An Education In Dating” series. Below he is offering some absolute golden nuggets of actionable info for men looking to start online dating, I cant recommend his section enough. If you are interested, please online dating guide. Thanks Gary!

MORE OFTEN THAN NOT THE MAJORITY OF DATING SITES OUT THERE WILL FOLLOW ON FROM CREATING YOUR BARE ESSENTIALS DATING PROFILE WITH A FEW ADDED QUESTIONS THAT YOU WILL NEED TO ANSWER. IT IS AT THIS IMPORTANT POINT THAT WE HAVE THE CHANCE TO WORD OUR ANSWERS IN A WAY THAT NOT ONLY ENTICES THE WOMEN READING IT, BUT ALSO ALLOWS THEM THE OPPORTUNITY TO EASILY EMAIL US TO FIND OUT MORE.

Fiction – When asked, we should aim to answer all questions when online dating directly.
Fact – Using the art of mystery entices women to want to know more about us.

By not giving the game away by answering any question directly, it also gives us the added benefit of making it much easier for women to want to send us that very first meaningful message to learn more.

Example #1: Favourite local hot spots or travel destinations?
A standard answer would be:
“I love visiting Brazil and go there as often as I can.”
Instead, answer it as:
“Certain parts of South America I cannot get enough of and it’s the culture that keeps drawing me back there for more.”
Why this works…
By being vague about the exact location in South America allows women an easy opportunity to ask us specifically where and what kind of culture we like.

Example #2: What I’m doing with my life?
A standard answer would be:
“Working a lot during the week and trying to make the most of my weekends.”
Instead, answer it as:
“I’m too busy living it to be thinking about it.”
Why this works…
The subtext here conveys that we are indeed a busy individual leading a full life whilst also not giving the game away which implies an element of mystery.

Example #3: Tell us more about your job?
A standard answer would be:
“I’m a primary school teacher who loves working with kids who also loves the long holidays in between.”
Instead, answer it as:
“Every day I wake up I can honestly say I follow my passion, and whilst some would consider it mundane, for me I chose this path because despite knowing my limits I like to push myself to them.”
Why this works…
Because essentially what we’re doing here is explaining our emotions and how we feel about our job which demonstrates what it means to us and the positive effect it has on our life but without giving the game away so again they’re left wanting more.

As always, please visit the Beginners Guide to Online Dating for the full ebook :)

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